The Lord has laid a burden on our hearts for a long time now, and we thought it was time to share it with everyone. Nathan and I are seriously looking into our options with adoption at this time. We have been praying and thinking about this idea for several years now. We both long to adopt a baby (or babies) that needs a mom and dad to love him or her and to raise this baby in a way that would please the Lord.
At this point, we are still in the research stages. We want to learn about all of our options and pray about everything before we make any decisions. We know that this decision will impact not only our lives, but the life of the new baby, the lives of our other children, our family and our friends around us. For a while we were looking only at international adoption, but we are now also considering domestic adoption. We have talked to several social workers, friends, and family members who have experiences with adoption - both good and bad.
We have several reasons for adopting that we want to share. The first is that we have an overwhelming sense of responsibility to help a little one in need and make a positive difference in a little life. All children need a family that will offer them hope, love, and a chance at a good life. It breaks my heart to think about Caleb or Libby being abandoned, orphaned, or abused and without someone to love and comfort them. I would hope that someone would reach out to them and take care of them if I was not able to.
The second reason is the Biblical mandate to look after orphans and widows and those who cannot help themselves. In a spiritual sense, all those who are a part of God's family were adopted into His family, and given the same rights of natural sons - heirs together with Jesus Christ! If God adopts all of us and looks past the ugliness of our sin, than earthly adoption is a picture of His matchless love for us.
Our third reason for adoption is a little more sentimental and silly - we love having little people! For various personal reasons, we are not pursuing more biological children for a while. What a great way to add to our family and what better time to adopt our next little one than now!
It is our prayer that the Lord will clearly show us His will in this matter. We believe that He does want us to adopt, but we are not sure about the timing and the details. There are several things standing in the way right now. I am currently unable to stay home with our kids full-time due to finances, so Nathan is looking for another job that would allow me to stay home. Another hurdle is that we just recently paid off my car. If we add more children to our brood (whether through adoption or not), we will need to consider a larger vehicle, which means another car payment. We may not have a "lot" compared to others, but we have what God has chosen to bless us with at this time. We want to share these blessings that he has given us with children who are not as fortunate.
Please pray that we will follow God's will for our family and that He will work everything out for us in His perfect timing. It could happen very soon or not for many years. We are just excited to see how all of the pieces will fit together. And we can't wait to look into the eyes of our new little son or daughter some day and tell them the story of how God brought them into our family.